David J. Gray

David J. Gray, 85, passed away peacefully on Friday, June 26 at the Samaritan Keep Home where he had been a resident since 2024.

David was born on November 11, 1940 to John and Mary Gray of Sackets Harbor, NY.  He was a 1958 graduate of Sackets Harbor High School.

Upon graduation he continued to work at the Atomic Market grocery store, located on Main St. in Sackets Harbor, owned and operated by his father and mother. After selling the store David obtained his insurance license and joined his father and brother at John E. Gray Insurance at 803 State Street where he held the title of Vice President. David became sole owner and operator of the business in 2016, after his brother's death.

The family would like to thank his Office Administrator, Allana Jakubowski for her friendship and dedication in keeping the family business operational until the time of his retirement.

David enjoyed traveling with friends to P-Town, Boston, and New York City to name just a few. He also enjoyed the night life here at the Paddock Club and the Jack in the Box.

David was pre-deceased by his mother Mary E. Gray, his father John B. Gray Jr, his brother John E. Gray and his four BELOVED Boston Terriers....Lightening, Millenium, Boo Boo and McCauley who will be interred with him per his wishes.

He is survived by his sister, Mary Ann Baisden, Orange Park Florida, his longtime partner Robert (Bob) Wentworth, Salisbury Maryland and several nieces and nephews.

Special thanks to friends Todd and Randy for their help and support, his dear friend and advocate Jane Spencer who has been by his side throughout his time at Samaritan Keep and also to his Third Floor Care Team for their daily commitment to his comfort and wellbeing.

An hour of calling will begin at 11 am on Thursday, July 2, 2026, at D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. at 135 Keyes Ave. Watertown, NY. A funeral service will be held at noon with the Reverend Kevin Kitto officiating. Burial with be in Brookside Cemetery immediately following the service. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Jefferson County SPCA, 25056 Water Street Watertown NY.

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