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Patricia J. McWayne

Patricia J. McWayne

1939 - 2017

Patricia J. McWayne, 78, of Lincoln Street, passed away November 27, 2017 at the Samaritan Medical Center.

Pat was born the eleventh child of John and Ethel Hunt Carpenter on March 14, 1939, in Watertown. She graduated from Watertown High School in 1957 and married Frederick A. McWayne on March 23, 1957.

Pat opened her home as the “Mrs. Claus’ House” for nine years with the help of her daughter Shane Marie. She was Mrs. Claus in parades, at events and in schools. Pat had a great deal of love for her family and children.

Surviving besides her husband, are a son Shawn (Kathleen Hunt) McWayne, a daughter Shane Marie McWayne, two step grandchildren, Tracy Slate and Matthew Smith, four step great grandchildren, Jacob Nadelen, Lucas Slate, Madeline Smith and Andrew Smith, two great nephews, Adam Marks and Nathan Hunt, several nieces and nephews. She is pre deceased by her parents, five brothers, Russell, Dalon, Paul, Neil, Donald, five sisters, Doreen LaMartina, Ula Marks, Wava Derouin, Iona Carpenter, Oneita Derrigo, two nephews, Paul Marks and David Marks.

Calling hours will be Wednesday, November 29, 2017, from 4pm until 7pm at the D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. A funeral service will be held Saturday, December 2, 2017 at 11 am at First Presbyterian Church with Rev. Dr. Fred Garry officiating. Burial will be at the family’s convenience.

In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to the Jefferson County SPCA, 25056 Water Street, Watertown, NY 13601 or to Ohio Street School, c/o Mark Taylor, 1537 Ohio St, Watertown, NY 13601. Condolences may be made to www.dlcalarco.com


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Condolences left by other guests:

Rest in peace Mrs. Clause and thank you for all the wonderful memories for all the children you made smile and feel special. We were all blessed to have known you.

By Samantha Derrigo on 12 02, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

I felt great sadness with the passing of such a wonderful women.  She touched my heart!

Shane, I will keep you in my prayers.
ED

By Edward Pierce on 12 01, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Shawn , Kathy and family
We are very sorry to hear of your loss.
Our thoughts are with all of you.
Charlie and Linda

By Charlie & Linda Arik on 11 29, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Shane and family,
  Sincerely saddened to read of Patty’s passing.
Such a lovely, classy lady shall be greatly missed. Thinking of you with sympathy & Prayers.

By Don Brimmer and Lyola (Brimmer)O'Reilly on 11 29, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Shane & family,
      My deepest condolences on your loss. I remember seeing you Shane not too long ago at the hospital when you told me your mom was very ill. Prayers for all of you

By LuAnne Beutel on 11 28, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Sorry for your loss Kathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

By Mary L Furman on 11 28, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Dear Shane,
Kim and I wanted to express to you our deepest sympathy on the passing of your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Please remember that thou she is physically gone from sight, she will forever remain alive in your heart and memories.

With our thoughts,
Doty Stevens & Kim Parker

By Doty Stevens & Kim Parker (CP of the North Country on 11 28, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Bucky, Shawn and Shane, please accept my condolences on the loss of your wife and Mom.  Loved the years I was her “elf”.  She was truly a kind and generous person.  Prayers are with you all!

Jo-Marie (Jo) Visconti

By Jo-Marie Visconti on 11 28, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Rest peacefully, “ Mrs. Clause “ until we meet again.  Sadly, you and the joy you gave to many is already missed. You soar with the spirits you have always deserved to be with. Thank you for the fond memories you gave me personally. Family rest assured she and her spirit will live on as she gave much joy to all of us who knew her .

By Kim Hodge Brislan on 11 28, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

We are so sorry for your loss. Pat was a wonderful person and loved by many. She will be sadly missed. R.I.P. fly with the angels.

By Lisa and Frank Gallo on 11 27, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Shawn,Kathy and family…and Shane, So sorry to here of your Mom’s passing, I just saw her not long ago while shopping at Top’s. She was a good friend to everyone, she will be greatly missed. Thinking of you and sending prayers.

By Patti (Sykes) Farrell on 11 27, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. So sorry to see that Patty has passed away.

By Lauraina& Tom Nadelen on 11 27, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

I am so sorry to hear of Pats passing. Just saw her a little bit ago and she never said a word.  Gracious to the end. Loved her and was a great friend. Thinking of you all. Prayers to you all

By Brenda Doxtater on 11 27, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

Buck, Shane and Shawn,  I’m deeply saddened to hear of pat’s passing.  My girls Denesha, Ashley, Michaele and Michaelia have very fond memories of living next door to your family on Lincoln St. The Easter parade that shut down the st with Shane dressed as the easter bunny handing out baskets the yr that for Xmas pat got a horse drawn sleigh so we could go Xmas caroling.  And all the parades and Halloweens at Behlings with the Trolley. Pat was truly a very special person and will be deeply missed.  RIP Sweet Lady.  Rhonda & girls

By Rhonda DeVito on 11 27, 2017


Condolences left by other guests:

  RIP sweet lady. You touched a lot of peoples lives with your kindness. You will never be forgotten.

By Karen on 11 27, 2017


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